Transform

If we talk about transform,  then transform should happen in life according  to the circumstances of the time . Changes are necessary in the stage of life.

The speed with which urbanization and industrialization is taking place in the world ,    the way in  which new  technology   are coming , at the same speed we should also change our lives. But this change which we are making should be done to keep pace with the world.

                             Just as a flock of birds leave the hot weather  and  goes towards the cold weather, in the same way we should also continue to make  diversion  within ourselves.

                       Every human being has an identity of his own and because of that identity he is known. The   identity which every person acquires during his life time should be developed along with life and not be changed.

              Just as a jaggery does not lose its sweetness , just as a chili does not lose its pungency ,  just as a sun does not lose its quality of light , similarly a person should not lose his identity , personality and his quality.

                  Talking about today's era, every person has his own personality and identity, which we should not  be changed because of someone's saying  it or  If some one is not liking it in the way we are .

Every person has his own lifestyle, his own way of living, his own food, his own dress, his own way of speaking, his own  personality , all these things reflect his identity to every person. We should never lose it .

              But in today's time, people  start giving more importance to others peoples   lifestyle  by looking at others ,  by  listening  to their words and without  thinking  or deep analyzing  ourselves  and start underestimating  himself  from others, due to which they start making changes in their life  and lose their recognition.

                      Every person has his own quality   which should not be hidden. One should not cast oneself according to the opinion of others .   Every person has a calibre  of his own.

                           Nowadays many people change themselves because the person in front does not get hurt, so we start walking  according  to them.   Just like after marriage, a woman puts herself according  to her husband's  and family wish, but none of the woman should never lost her own existence.

                     Nowadays people are trying to convince others by proving  themselves  wrong, which is not correct . Every person has an identity of his own, a thought of his own, which should not be proved wrong or disregarded by any human being  and no person should change himself because to enamour  someone .

                               Yes, if there are some good things in a person and some bad things in us, then we can change them, we can follow the good thoughts of others, but to please someone  ,    we should never change our good habits and our good thought .

                        All I want to say is that one should maintain his/her identity and never change oneself to be good in front of someone .

                                      Some one said it well  - Don’t invest yourself in the  wrong people . Because when you invest yourself into wrong people   then they break you into pieces  .     They torn you apart   in such a way that it will takes year and year to get back   together  .  

                                   Writer – ayushgupta